If you are considering a divorce, you may want to keep the following five things in mind:

First: Don’t Post. One of the most important things to remember is any information you put out on the internet can be used against you. If you are thinking about getting a divorce, don’t put your potential ex-spouse on blast on the internet and social media. Your posts could hurt you in the end. Keep your private life private.

Second: Do your research. If you don’t handle the household finances, figure out what you have and how much you both make and how much you have in the bank. Yes you can ask your spouse for that information in the divorce, but it is better if you know something going in so you have a better idea of what you are entitled to.

Third: Talk to an experienced attorney. You need know what to expect, most people know about divorce law and outcomes through second hand gossip. Don’t just listen to what your friend or neighbor thinks your rights and responsibilities in a divorce will be, meet with an attorney who can properly evaluate your situation and advise you.